I think my husband is mad at me
My husband finally got his yard cleaned up – right on time. Yesterday he had court and they dismissed the case. YAY!
But now the city is on his case about his house. They want to inspect it to make sure it is suitable for living. It isn’t suitable for living, so he’s been blowing them off. Well, yesterday a city official showed up at his door with two cops. He didn’t let them in. A friend of his is telling him to go ahead and move out. So he said yesterday he was finding a place to live.
Earlier, he said he wanted me to spend the night with him, but I thought since he was finding another place to live, that wouldn’t happen.
Then he called me yesterday and left a voicemail saying that he was going to sleep and he’d call me when he got up.
Then it started snowing, so I left work early. I dropped off my prescription for Trazodone at Walmart and went home. By the time I got on my road, the snow was sticking to the road.
A few hours later, my husband called me and wanted to rent a hotel room with me and get snowed in at the motel. We discussed it for a few minutes, then I decided not to because there was more snow on the ground than before, and I’m not driving in it. He said he couldn’t get up his hill in the truck so I would have to meet him somewhere. He was like “Why didn’t you come over earlier?” I said, “I thought you were finding a place to live.” He said “No didn’t you get my message, I was sleeping?” I said “Let’s just not do this tonight.” He said “Fine, I’ll have to make other arrangements then,” and we hung up.
The fact is, he slept too long. If he had woken up right around the time it started snowing, we could’ve gone to a motel together. And I wouldn’t loved to spend the weekend with him. But I’m not risking my life to do that.
I wish I could say I would do anything for my husband. But I can’t. I won’t risk my life and I won’t clean up his mess. These are things that irritate him, but that’s too bad. I have my limits.
I hope he found a place to stay. I called his phone this morning when I got up and it was turned off. That either means he is sleeping or he’s mad at me. I can’t imagine he was sleeping. He gets up at 2am.
I’ve personally dealt with anxiety attacks my whole life. It started when I was just a teenager and I’ve had to deal with them since then. I found a solution that has helped me get them done once and for all. I will tell you that it wasn’t quick or easy, but after a while I was able to finally get rid of them. I’m back on track and its like I’ve started a new life not having panic attacks. I also saw a Dr. Oz special a few days ago, sometimes it isn’t a panic attack that is the root of the problem, I’d also recommend talking to your doctor. Best of luck!